Since a set of killer abs will be replaced with a beer belly before you know it, it’s important to be in a relationship with a guy who you enjoy spending time with.According to Susanne Alexander, relationship coach and author of , a best guy friend fits the bill.After all, a lot of the traits you look for in a best friend are the same as those you look for in a significant other.
and 101 Great Dates, and some collegiettes who have dealt with this issue firsthand. It’s easy to mistake being compatible with someone platonically for being compatible with that person romantically, especially when they’re your cute guy friend.
So while a relationship with somebody new often involves a lot of overanalyzing and sending nerve-racking texts, you won't have to play the guessing game this time around.
Think back to how you met your last boyfriend — your friends set you up, you hit it off at a party, or maybe he sat next to you in your lecture class.
It happened right before my eyes: the guy sitting across the table, who I used to text about the really awkward dates I went on, transformed into the person I wanted to be kissing at the end of the night.
It was an electric feeling — like I got zapped — and suddenly I realized everything was about to change in a big way.